Como Queriendo Y No tells the story of a love that dissolves little by little, almost as if both people were unsure whether they truly wanted to hold on or let go. Alex Fernández sings from the perspective of the person who stayed, watching affection fade from his partner’s eyes until she finally leaves. The repeated phrase “como queriendo y no” (roughly “as if wanting to and not”) paints a picture of hesitation: she seems to love him, yet her actions betray a quiet decision to walk away. Each verse echoes that slow drift—her gaze grows distant, his heart stays committed, and the gap between them widens until it breaks him “en dos” (in two).
Despite the heartbreak, the song carries a touch of graciousness. While he mourns the “death” of their relationship, he still wishes her “buena suerte” (good luck) wherever she goes. This bittersweet goodbye wrapped in tender ranchera-pop melodies makes the track feel both personal and universally relatable, reminding listeners that sometimes love ends not with a loud crash but with a soft, uncertain step toward the door.
Álex Fernández (born November 4, 1993, in Mexico City) is a talented Mexican singer and songwriter known for his contributions to regional Mexican music. As the son of legendary ranchera singer Alejandro Fernández and grandson of the iconic Vicente Fernández, Álex carries on a proud musical legacy with a fresh and modern voice. He debuted in 2018 with the heartfelt single Te Amaré, which quickly earned him Latin Grammy nominations in 2019 for Best Regional Song and Best Ranchero/Mariachi Album.
Guided by his grandfather’s musical direction, Álex released his first album Sigue la Dinastía in 2019, showcasing his powerful vocals and skills on the piano. His music blends tradition and contemporary sensibilities, making him a rising star in Mexico’s vibrant music scene. Beyond music, Álex is also an entrepreneur and family man, recently marrying Alexia Hernández and welcoming their daughter Mía in 2022.