Stronza is a strong, informal Italian word that can be translated as "bitch" or "asshole" when referring to a person, or more generally as "shitty" or "crappy" when referring to a situation or thing.
In this song, Nek uses it to describe life itself: "Perché la vita è un po' una stronza, ma ci ha resi forti" (Because life is a bit of a bitch, but it has made us strong). This personification of life as a difficult, challenging entity makes the word particularly impactful and memorable, showing a raw and honest perspective on life's struggles.
This song is a powerful reflection on a love that's messy, complicated, but ultimately essential. The singer looks back on a relationship that has been through difficult times, acknowledging that pain has changed him. He describes himself as a dreamer who gives his all, while his partner is more cautious, someone who once told him he needed to "learn to walk" on his own.
Despite the challenges and the chaos, which he describes as a "mess," the core message is one of unwavering hope. The lyrics paint a picture of a deep bond, filled with intimate moments like pouring wine while she dances. The singer holds onto the belief that love is worth fighting for, famously stating, "You don't die of love, you know / You die without it." He's still waiting for his partner, convinced that their shared struggles have made them stronger and that their future together, no matter how messy, "will be beautiful."