Despistada is a fantastic adjective that means "clueless," "absent-minded," or "distracted." It's used to describe someone who isn't paying attention to what's really happening around them.
In the song, Cazzu sings directly to the new girlfriend, calling her despistada for worrying about the wrong person. She warns her, "Tienes tu enemigo durmiendo en tu cama" (You have your enemy sleeping in your bed), implying the real threat is her own boyfriend, not Cazzu.
Cazzu turns heartbreak into a lesson in karma in her pop anthem "Con Otra." Speaking directly to the new girlfriend of an unfaithful ex, the Argentine singer serves a cocktail of sass, warning and solidarity. She insists she has zero interest in stealing the guy back; instead, she exposes his pattern: if he cheated once, he will cheat again. The real enemy, Cazzu says, is not her but the man already “sleeping in your bed.”
Behind the catchy beat lies a playful but cautionary tale about trust and self-respect. Cazzu’s lyrics flip the usual love-triangle drama on its head: rather than compete, she sympathizes with the other woman and predicts the inevitable betrayal. The song celebrates confidence, calls out toxic relationships and reminds listeners that what goes around inevitably comes around.