Ever noticed how the smallest daily habits become deafening when someone is gone? In Nu Wij Niet Meer Praten the Dutch singer Jaap Reesema, joined by Belgian rising star Pommelien Thijs, paints a vivid postcard of post-breakup quiet. The narrator wanders past canals, wonders if the ex still belts out Marco Borsato hits or drives that trusty old Volvo, and realises that even the arguments he once despised have turned into something he longs for. Every street, every sound, every memory suddenly echoes only one name.
The song is a bittersweet confession of regret and nostalgia. Communication has stopped, and with that silence comes insomnia, overthinking, and the aching wish to rewind time. By zooming in on homely Dutch details and everyday routines, Reesema and Thijs show that love is not just grand gestures but also off-key sing-alongs and ordinary car rides. When those moments vanish, the quiet feels louder than any fight ever did, leaving one truth ringing clear: sometimes you only see what you had once it is impossible to talk about it.